I’ve been with my gf for 4 years, I love her to death and I’d do anything for her and she’d do anything for me. But I just don’t feel sparks, and it’s driving me nuts.
Our sex life is maybe twice a month. I think she’s beautiful but I just don’t feel the urge.
Why on earth would this happen? I mean I know relationships are bound to even out and become a routine and sparks do fade, but when will they come back? It’s been years? And even then I never felt sparks with her like I did for my ex’s. I feel terrible.
We are an otherwise perfect fit, rarely argue. We want the same things in life, she’s very supportive of me and I’m very supportive of her. I’m always giving her words of affirmations and we are always cuddling. She compliments me daily and there’s nothing she wouldn’t do for me. But I just don’t feel that spark, and we go on dates and try new things.