I’m a 20 year old guy from Switzerland, currently studying at uni, and I’ve been single for a few months. Having some autistic traits, adhd and hpi, I don’t really behave and see things the same way as most people. What I know about myself is that I am « good » at having great relationships (understanding, supportive, open-minded, there for others…) and, from experience, the two ex-girlfriends I have still tell me it was the most simple (as in no useless conflicts and stupid problems) and enjoyable relationships they had.
However, I suck at creating those relationships. I never know when or how to engage in a conversation with someone I’m interested in, don’t get the clues if someone likes me and don’t have the confidence for it in general.
I don’t like hitting on people just for a hookup or to desperately be in a relationship, I’d really like to find genuine love but my concern is that, being that bad for the start of something, I might just miss the opportunities of beautiful relationships.
How could I, without being weird, just show who I am and how positive I can be to people, without seeming like a weird guy who cannot even take the first step? I know I can’t force love to come, I just wanna be in the best situation to make something of it if the chance appears
I know everything is not perfectly clear, ask me any question you might have about what I wrote 🙂