My partner is only able to finish if she’s lying face down on top of me with me inside and she grinds on my pubic bone. This is fine with me and honestly I enjoy the full body contact, but she feels embarrassed by it and wishes she could get there other ways, especially for when she’s feeling a bit more tired/lazy.
We’ve tried as many positions as we can find (and actually pull off) and including hands at the same time as penetration and we’ve tried using a small wand vibrator but that didn’t do much for her either. I’ve also tried oral in the past but that’s never done much for her (and honestly I wasn’t very good at it then due to some bad advice I was given, I know better now) and she’s not super keen on trying it again but is open to it.
She’s not an overly sexual person and is flat out not interested in masturbating so I don’t know what I can do to help her figure out some other way. Is there anything anyone could recommend trying? I don’t mind dropping some money on toys and things if people think it’d be worth it.