I'm 21m and I'm dealing with something that's really messing with my confidence. I've never had a problem making girls cum in the past with previous partners.
But with my current girlfriend, no matter what I do, she hasn't orgasmed. She tells me she enjoys sex with me and that it's not a big deal to her, but I can't stop thinking about it. It honestly makes me feel like I'm failing or that I'm not good enough.
We've tried communication, foreplay, different positions, pacing, etc. She's also been through some trauma in the past, so I'm trying to be understanding and patient, but the idea that she might never cum with me really bothers me. It's not that she needs it but I really want to be the one to give her that experience.
Is there anything I can do? Any advice is welcome and VERY appreciated.