I (21M) and my girlfriend (19F) have been together close to 2 years now. Most of the time our relationship is great, we love each others personalities, we really like each others families. This is the woman I want to get married to.
However, over the last several months we’ve been having arguments about a bunch of different things. Mostly it’s her having thinks she doesn’t like that I say or do. Last month it was about a poster that I’ve had since we started dating, once day she decided that she didn’t like it and told me to take it down while we were on the phone. I asked why and she only said that she just doesn’t like it. This happens a few more times and a keep wanting a reason why I have to take it down. Eventually she makes a huge deal out of it and she blows up at me.
Similar things happen every month or so and I don’t know if I can take it any longer. She continues to find a problem with me or something I am doing. She always wants me to know what she’s thinking or what she wants without her saying it. I can deal with it now but I’m worried if that if I don’t call it quits now this will be my life forever.
All I want is peace and joy in my daily life. What can I do or say that can make this change?
Need some help and guidance 🙏🏽
TL;DR: girlfriend keeps making up issues and I don’t know how else to talk to her about it.