Asking for men in their 20s-30s
I’m a woman entering my mid 20s and I’m frankly a little embarrassed about how little I’ve progressed since graduating uni. I know I shouldn’t compare myself but I felt embarrassed dating because obviously I want to be with someone smart, hardworking and successful (no need to be some billionaire, just a good stable career and life habits u know).
I’ve only graduated from uni but I only have an admin job that pays alright and I still live at home with no license (failed couple months ago, oof). I personally know and have heard of many women with way more accolades than me (masters/phd/med school etc, really good careers, have their own apartments or at least moved out, can drive, amazing hobbies, savings, travel/life experience, volunteering etc etc). Even those women are having a hard time dating or finding someone long term.
So how can I? If I want a high standard man I should also be someone of high value. This goes without saying the basics of being kind, loyal, and sharing similar hobbies and values.
I’ve heard time and time again that for most men they only really care if the girl is skinny, pretty and kind lol but cmon, men have more depth than that right?