This is my first job, and I’m a foreigner whose work permit needs renewal in a month.
From the start, my married boss singled me out being less strict, encouraging others to include me, and acting like he had my back. At first it was surface-level, but winks turned into him touching my hair, holding my hand, and he even began playing mind games by making sure I notice when he is flirting with others.
He's like a fox, very smart very sneaky yet most of the times reliable, what i'm saying is that he is VERY seasoned.
Last night we were close to kissing. I find him attractive, but I don’t actually like him I just don’t want to risk being on his bad side with my permit renewal coming up. Deep down he means nothing to me, and I think what draws him is my quietness and independence so I'm VERYYY worried that continuing this or letting it get intimate would lower my value and there for put me into a worse position.
I dont want a relationship with him, I just rather have his support and protection on me.
Is there anyway i can keep it in the middle?
I dont know what to do.
Going back to my home country is never an option.
TL;DR older married boss is b
Trying to be intimate with me and I need him on my side.