I've had enough! Ok part of it is because I haven't really been bothered these last few years for dating, but basically, I'm a 29 year old man and I feel like I have my life together, and to be honest I've been a bit lonely this last year and want to actually meet someone
I do want a relationship but I haven't ever really tried to meet women, my ex was from the apps (I don't use anymore), and I feel I've really sorted myself out these last few years, way more confidence and secure in myself, in shape, just 'got it together'.
I have hobbies that can be social and go out with friends and stuff, and without sounding like a d*ck, I have started to get quite a lot of attention from women….It's the same every time, I spot someone who I think is beautiful looking at me, multiple times…I think they are really attractive and….NOTHING, I do nothing
I'm sick of it, it's time to change, I have the mindset of making friends when meeting anyone, including women which takes the pressure off and happily can talk to anyone who talks to me, but I just can't bring myself to go over and speak to a women in a direct way!
So I ask people of reddit, please give me a push to change this!
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You’ve already done the hardest part, getting your life together and building that confidence. The next step is just action. Start small, like saying hi, giving a genuine compliment, or asking a casual question. You don’t need a perfect line, just honesty. Worst case, it’s a short chat, best case, you make a connection.