How do I overcome the fear of repeating the same pattern in dating. I have had a lot of issues in my dating life, including but not limited to anxious attachment and insecurities. It has been a me problem and have been working on inner issues. I also noticed a pattern in guys I date. I tried dating earlier this year and it went horribly wrong and for the first time it was not my fault (long story). Before that, the last time I had dated was 2022. Somehow I hoped things would be different since I was different but still. So how do I overcome the fear of attracting same type of guys and repeating the pattern?