So as a guy i hear women say that a women reciprocates whatever a man gives and what energy he gives hence a relationship is in his hands where he wanna take it
My ex gf behaved wrongly with me i received bad/rude treatment now according to this i deserved it because she reciprocated my energy hence it was justified but i never treated her like that at all
I do agree with this saying but many times it isn’t true and feels like victim blaming like if ever a lady treats me bad i don’t have a say
What to think of it?