For context – he often texts his ex(re; their stupid cat she now has lmao), tried hanging out with two girls when out of town of a trip but they failed to respond/entertain it, and I also recently found out he was heavily flirting with a coworker about a year into our relationship.
I confronted him and he flipped it on me. When I managed to flip it back, he said he has growing up to do and his trying to learn from his mistakes and do that growing up.
He's almost 31 lol. I'm 26. SURELY 31 is far too old to be using this excuse??