I(27F) is debating with my friend (26F) on how to swipe on dating apps without getting exhausted and deleting the app.
I personally think for women we should only be swiping on the guys who like us first. I have a long term boyfriend and I think the strategy works. My friend ignore the likes completely and only wants guys she’s absolutely attracted to so she swipes.
Personally from my experience I never had low effort dates or guys who were disrespectful. Also oddly enough not a single guy who lied about their height. My friend on the other hand has had the strangest dates and her last ex was the most disrespectful person ever towards her. So I believe it’s because she’s swiping on the guys and not let them swipe on her first. She disagrees and just says guys are trash that’s why.
What do you do and is there a difference in the dates you have depending who likes who in your experience.