I (29F) gave birth 2 months ago. My husband (30M) and I haven’t had sex since the baby.
I noticed he’s been masturbating more than usual and got a weird feeling. Last night, I went through his phone (I know I shouldn’t have) and found out he has an OnlyFans account where he’s been paying for a few girls. His Instagram search history is also full of porn/Instagram models, and two girls we actually know who post a lot of revealing pictures.
I don’t care if he watches porn, but paying for OF and looking up people we know feels different to me and crosses a boundary. I feel hurt and uncomfortable, especially since I’ve been vulnerable postpartum and still healing. He knows there is something wrong now, do I admit that I went through his phone and saw everything?
Tl;dr went through husbands phone to find him paying for only fans