We (m42) (wife40) are married for about 7 years and have one 4 year old daughter. I am a stay at home dad and working from home, and my wife working full time all 5 days. Usually I try not to push my stress on to my wife but at times it just becomes impossible and I blast out. It’s just mostly things like how messy the house turns out to be while my kid is playing and that I have to tidy up and I don’t ask my wife to do clean it as I understand she has had a difficult day. But what I ticks me is that when they play around she doesn’t instruct our child to tidy up which they just leave it like that assuming that I will do it. When I see this it gives me a headache and pains me. I get angry on this matter and then I am made felt that I am the non understanding person here. It’s results in spending her weekends very sour due to which our family time gets affected badly. Usually I do the tidy up things, laundry and all house work except cooking which she does. Getting a house help in this country is very expensive. But small things like these makes me crazy and I just don’t know what to do about it. What’s your suggestion? How do you manage?