I've recently started seeing someone new and had sex with her for the first time today. At some point I asked if she wanted to go down on me but then noticed that she seemed to be hesitant. She didn't say anything but made attempts to do it. When I stopped her and asked about it she said something along the lines of "I am not used to saying no if I don't like something"
This kind of shocked me. She didn't really want to talk about it but apparently her last boyfriend used to pressure her into doing things regardless of what she wanted. I made her promise to tell me if she was unsure about anything and then on her request dropped the topic.
I don't really know how to deal with that information.
I guess I'll be extra careful and ask her about how she's feeling often the next time we have sex.
Is there anything else I can do?