I’m a very open-minded person so I don’t let “small” things keep me from dating someone, but I’m noticing what starts out as small later turns into a giant red flag saying “Hey, how did you miss me?”
Do you guys have dating rules you’ve set for yourself or hard nos? I feel like I keep dating duds (not bad guys, just not the right fit).
I’m a 26f working on my master’s and in somewhat decent shape (I feel like I could lose 15-20 lbs but friends (even platonic male ones) tell me I have a nice shape. Strangers tell me I’m pretty in public settings so I think it’s safe to say I’m attractive. I’m happy and live a full life, and I think I have a pretty good personality. Not to sound conceited. Just wondering why I can’t find a quality man. Maybe it’s how I’m dating.
Edit: Obviously most people have rules or standards for who they date. I guess more specifically have you set new ones that really changed your dating experiences in a positive way? If so, can you please share them?