my boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years. We haven't had sex in over two months because every time we try, he loses his boner. i'm so fucking tired of having to be a good sport about it. its kinda been happening our entire relationship. I miss getting destroyed and thrown around like a ragdoll. I miss getting out of body orgasms. I miss having a partner i can do all positions with. I miss consistent sex. I miss my partner having been consistent erections. i'm a very sexual woman with a high libido so this is really affecting me. I just don't know what to do anymore. I don't want to be a shallow person over this. my family loves him, his family loves me and we always talk about marriage. Plus we have been together for so long. I don't even know where we go from here. he finally went to see a urologist who prescribed him Cialis. he bought a penis pump too for more blood flow to his penis as he is morbidly obese. we tried last night, no luck. i really need some advice on how to move forward with this as it's a sensitive subject for him and i know he wants to perform.
tl;dr – 3 + yr long relationship with a sad sex life (its been over 2 months). bf always losing boner, he's tried other things to help, no success. craving intimacy.