We matched on a dating app earlier this summer. Went on 3 dates. He was sweet and a little awkward, but I liked him. The timing wasn’t great for me though, I was really overwhelmed with work/life, and confused being burnt out for no connection. I ended up calling things off.

Fast forward a month, we match on another dating app. He sends me a silly message, I tell him I’ve been thinking about him. Explain my confusion earlier and open the door for another date.

He agrees, was very nonchalant about it. We’re meeting next weekend at the same place we had our original 1st date at. Idk if this is considered a 2nd 1st date or a 4th at this point lol, but I’m unsure how to prepare for the date.

It’s just drinks, but I don’t want it just to be small talk. I also don’t want things to be too awkward, I want to get to know him better, where he’s at, why did he agree to meet with me again.

Any advice appreciated.


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