I (18F) met this guy at uni and we drunk kissed at a party. I didn’t think much of it, but I heard from my friends he was really into me. We have only known each other for a month now.
He wasn’t my type at first glance, but he wasn’t bad looking either. I chatted him up later and it turned out we had a lot of stuff in common like music taste and hobbies. We are in the same major AND same friend group kinda so I see him often outside classes. He is always super nice and walks me home and we can have great conversations.
It was last friday that we were at our mutual friends bday. My friend kept saying I should flirt with him and how he was staring at me. So I kinda did. We ended up talking the whole evening. He put his arm around me and I just let it happen. At the end we left together and I just had a great evening so I asked him “so when are we getting a drink together?”. As in, hinting at a date. I don’t know why I did that. I really enjoy spending time with him, but looking back I don’t have much feelings towards him. I feel like I am leading him on, but at the same time maybe I just need to get to know him better and strong feelings will come.
So, should I just call everything off and possibly make it awkward or should I give it more time? Help.