Hi guys!

I've (28F) quite recently stepped into the dating scene, and I've had like 5 dates with a guy I really like. But, I have a feeling that I'm not really contributing much.

So what usually happens is we'd go and meet somewhere neutral, or my date would pick me from my house, but almost always he would drop me off or walk me home as well.

Then he would offer to pay for a lot of the activities we end up doing together, and I think I'm doing a good job splitting the bill when he lets me, and we take turns with rounds for drinks too. I think we are equally enthusiastic about places to go, but when we do commit, he tends to quite readily do the bookings for us.

He's a very good influence as well for me, encouraging me to gym more, eat better food, sleep on time.

But I just feel he's doing much more for me than I'm doing for him, and I'm just wondering what are some things I can do for him?


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