We met 4 months ago. Saw each other a handful of times then (5 times) when he was in town. I just traveled to him and stayed there 3 nights. We went on dates, had sex so I asked if he felt like he was ready to be with me. He mentioned I was moving fast and he hadn’t seen me in person enough to really know. We communicate in the phone in between but I do agree it’s not the same. He said he doesn’t want to make the same mistakes as he has before in his previous relationship, & has his guard up for protection. I feel a little disappointed. Half of me doesn’t want to settle and wait around but the other half is sad bc I truly opened myself up to this guy for the first time after being divorced. Same country, 20 hour drive from each other)