What are the pros and cons on going on multiple dates in a week? Anything I need to be aware of?
For example, Monday, Wednesday and Friday, Sunday etc. in 1 week.
Monday and Sunday, with Date 1 – 3rd and 4th date, dinner and a movie maybe. It’s 3rd and 4th date.
Wednesday, with Date 2 – Coffee/Casual Meal Date – this is a first date
Friday, with Date 3 – Dinner Date – this is a first date
I usually don’t date multiple men in a week. I usually date one guy at a time. After going on so many dates with 12-13 men from this May/June, I haven’t met a right guy. All of the men, I’ve declined due to no chemistry or incompatibility after going on 2-3 dates with them. Some were only first date as I felt no chemistry at all on the first date.
Date 1 is model handsome, could be a model in men’s fashion or shaving products etc. But he’s a divorced man with a kid. His situation isn’t the most ideal as he can’t spend Friday night. Only Saturday night from 8 pm and Sunday. He’s a few years younger than me.
Date 2 and Date 3 are new men. They just asked me out. Just been chatting with them for a few days. Date 2, successful guy in the same industry as mine. I can definitely talk about work and intellectually connect. A few years younger than me. Date 3, very successful and wealthy guy. Much older than me. Semi-retired. But a gentleman. We both like arts and a lot in common with hobbies etc.
I want to expedite the process so I want to go on dates with multiple men in a week. (** I don’t sleep with men outside of a committed exclusive relationship, so I don’t sleep with these men, just go on dates and see what happens, and to see if I have chemistry/would click with any of them etc).
Given that I haven’t gone on dates with multiple men in a week, do I need to be aware of some things? I’m afraid I won’t feel a romantic connection or deep feelings going on so many dates with different men in a week. Anything I need to be aware of?