I’m in a long-distance relationship, and during a recent video call my girlfriend told me that I’m not saying anything exciting. She asked me to turn her on, but I honestly froze and didn’t know what to do or say in that moment. She also mentioned that she needs a dopamine rush, which made me realize I probably give off more of an “old guy vibe” than I should.
I don’t want to come across as boring or unexciting, especially since most of our relationship relies on video calls. What are some ways I can be more playful, flirty, and engaging over video calls so she actually feels excited and turned on?