He and I decided to go pumpkin picking because I’ve never done it before. We’ve been talking for 3 weeks. However, the only patch is closer to his part of town, which is 35 miles away from me. When we matched, he was visiting his family who lives only 4 miles from me. Since I can’t drive, I would need to take a 2 hour train ride. He offered to pick me up halfway by car, as that would be a faster route. It’s a 43 minute drive to my location and a 47 minute drive to the pumpkin patch, since he is used to this commute