Moved to a big city from a small town about four months ago and have been going out on dates with this girl for about a month now. It has been a good amount of dates, about six. With some hanging out here and there. Over the past two weekends we have been staying at each other’s place, I met some of her family and friends (mine don’t live here), and we have been spending the weekends together. The other day I brought up that I was not seeing anyone else, just to be truthful where my heads at, I don’t have the energy or time to date multiple people beyond the first date, she hit me with “Ok”. I wasn’t expecting her to say it back, just wanted to share, but since then it has been near radio silence on the communication end with me double texting here and there to confirm and organize what were supposed to be the plans for the week, even after she asked about a week ago for me to text more. She had to cancel on our plans for tonight unfortunately with no alternative time offered.
The moment I was honest, energy flipped, and it’s very frustrating
Is a month a fair amount of time to mention that I am not seeing anyone else? I brought it up pretty randomly and just while we were hanging in the morning making breakfast.