I met a girl online. We have called, FaceTimed, and texted for a while. We are now planning a time to visit. However, there has been this one concerning issue I’ve been having, and it’s the fact that we don’t talk as much as I would like to.
I know that we’re busy, but even I can make time to text back and she just doesn’t. She has constantly told me how she’s afraid that she is going to bore me and I won’t like her anymore. But I also tell her how I don’t like that she doesn’t respond to me within a reasonable time frame. There have even been instances where we have not talked for almost a whole week, and then she finally texts me back. (This scares me because I was once engaged to a woman like this, and frankly I don’t know if I’m repeating myself)
I have stressed this issue with her twice now, and I really don’t want to have to talk about it for the third time. She acknowledged it both times, and at this point I don’t know if it’s even worth it, because what are the chances that she changes?