My now boyfriend (22M) made things official with me (19F) just under a month ago after a month of dating and things are going really well so far. We joke around with each other and have became comfortable around each other very quickly and we have yet to see any red flags in each other. This is my first time having a boyfriend, holding hands, cuddling, kissing.
However, I can’t help but read and watch things that say this is how relationships start before the guy ends up becoming less interested in dates, texts become dry, etc and I’m so scared of that happening since things are going so well at the moment and I really like him and he really likes me. We’ve been texting every day since our first date, we check in on how our days have gone, vent about work to each other, etc.
How can I overcome this insecurity? I don’t want to self sabotage by mistake but I’m really scared of things switching up like I’ve seen so many relationships do with other people.