I feel like there's so much discourse when it comes to men and women dating experiences, and both men and woman fight over who has it worse.

I legit feel like men and women should "manage" each other's Tinder account to understand what they all go through.

Obviously, I'm not saying they should set up dates or anything, but I am saying that this would be a decent way to understand what the other goes through.


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  1. Part of the reason men don’t get matches is because they don’t put any effort into their profiles.

  3. I think it’s wild how many bots men are faced with. I’ve been on tinder since it launched and have never experienced that when swiping on dudes

  4. Try being bisexual, then you get all those experiences at the same time and the worst of everyone

  5. Yes, it’s true that men do not get nearly as many matches as men. Women are flooded with loads of attention while men receive very little. However, I will say one thing although women get loads of attention. It’s mostly low quality matches. Matches which result in men who are serious are very slim so actually I would say when it comes to the end of the result of dating, men and women are neck and neck.

  7. Haha I have two stories. One time a male friend asked to fk around on my Tinder because ig he assumed I got a lot of matches. He(I) didnt get any lol.

    Another time was when I was hanging out with this girl that really liked me. We were out getting coffee and i dont remember how but eventually I was on her Tinder swiping. Every right swipe was a match.

  8. Honestly that’d open a lot of eyes. Guys would see the flood of weird messages women get, and women would see how quiet it is for most guys. Might kill some of that “who has it worse” energy real quick

  9. So a friend and I did this. She has constant matches and is constantly trying to find the one. She was flabbergasted when I told her I might get a match once every 6 months. Of course she thought it was all me. so we re did my profile and she managed it for a bit. after about 3 months she gave up and told me she would find someone to hook me up with! lol

  10. I think it should be pretty easy for women to understand what men mean, when they say they are not getting any likes. It’s really simple, you make a profile and get no likes and don’t get to interact with anyone. End of story.

    What I really find harder to get is women complaining about getting too much likes and from ‘low quality’ men.

    First of all, I’ve NEVER seen a women on the apps, that I would consider ‘low quality’. I do not like everyone, only a few actually; I think in five months on the apps I’ve liked around 20 women. But I have not rejected anyone for being ‘low quality’.

    Secondly, the ‘like system’ is there to prevent women from being flooded with attention. You have to like a man first, it’s not a match otherwise. If you’re matching with ‘low quality’ men, you are liking the wrong profiles. The system is there for you, for the specific problem you are complaining about! Use it!

    So yeah, OPs right (upvote given). It would be nice to trade an account with a woman and see what in the world are they talking about.

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