Friend set me up with someone for a date. We went, I thought it went fine enough, then we both went home. Messaged her a lil bit after then forgot for a week or two and messaged her again. She didn’t respond after that so I figured she wasn’t interested
My friend then asked what happened and tells me she’s really sad because she actually had very positive feedback and definitely wanted to go on a second date. It hadn’t been THAT long imo, so maybe my sense of time is off
So I thought maybe a week is too much time, so I made it like… 2 days max and it seems like I have this same sort of enthusiastic reception but as soon as I drop the rhythm of conversation, even for a day, I get ghosted
Another time on a dating app I get this really enthusiastic message, so I’m like oh okay she’s interested, talk to her for a bit, forget for 1-2 days, she unmatches. I’m thinking I said something to offend her but nah, the conversation was normal as far as I could tell
I don’t really understand what the normal rhythm is supposed to be. It all feels very, very rushed to me. Am I weird for this?