This is going to be a long one hang with me.
I (21M) met a girl (20F) at a party back in July, she showed interest in me but I didn’t make a move because she was a bit drunk and I don’t play like that. Anyway she went out of town for work and came back 10 days ago and since we’ve been on a friend hangout which we had really nice conversation and ended up driving her home and making out with her for a bit then texted daily and had an official date which went great, I picked her up grabbed drinks and she really opened up about some family and life issues she had recently which she described as the “worst period of her life ever” and also her past childhood experiences, then apologised that she didn’t wanna trauma dump on me early on but she felt comfortable around me and felt really nice that she talked to someone which of course I said it was no problem, we then went to grab McDonald’s and sat outside eating them she had told me that she “takes her time” when it comes to being sexual with someone but after eating we made out and told me if we could dry hump and got on top of me and made out for like 2-3 hours the date lasted 8 hours I picked her up at 9pm and returned her home at 5am only because we both needed to wake up at 8am, she suggested herself a 2nd date and that she will try to find time this Friday before she leaves again out of town for the last time before she comes back indefinitely. In the next morning she called me for the first time just to tell me good morning and to make sure I woke up in time (which was a lovely gesture btw). After all this fairytale though the issues are that her friend told me that she has a reputation of hookups with guys but herself says otherwise and that these rumours aren’t true and she’s kinda weird at texting she can go from leaving me on delivered for 1-3 hours and being dry to writing whole essays and responding immediately talking until 3am (she studies very much for her exams). Now I may be stupid but I’m anxious and overthinking if she’s just looking for a hookup and some quick fun or that she might be losing interests all together I told her that I’m not into hookups because I find them pointless and she kind agreed but let the question floating in the air so that’s that. I need advice because the more we talk the more I get anxious.