Ok so a quick recap on what’s been going on. This guy and I matched on hinge me 25F and him 28M. We’ve been dating for about a month now and have gone on 4 dates. He only really texts to plan a date or to confirm plans, doesn’t seem to like back and forth. But I do keep in mind he’s a PT and co owns his own clinic so he’s prob busy.
3 of our dates have been go for a nice dinner, drinks, a walk then have sex in his car. I’ve confided a lot in him about past traumas with guys and having pain during it and he always comforts me and cares about my pleasure. Another thing is he doesn’t just leave when we finish, we usually cuddle and have deep convos so I feel like maybe he is interested in more. He also talks a lot about the future “we should go here sometime” “we still haven’t gone clubbing” etc. and he compliments my love for adventure and other non physical attributes.
Ok so fast forward to the most recent date which was last week. I invited him over to watch a movie the night before he leaves for a short trip (3 days)
He started making out as soon as we sat down but I playfully told him he’s distracting me from the movie and I’d like to watch. After the movie we had sex and he stayed 40ish mins and watched another show with me and fell asleep cuddling. He woke me by giving me a kiss on the head and asking if I fell asleep, very sweet and made me melt. After I had said goodbye to him he called me 2 times which shocked me, I called back and he told me there was an issue with the condom and offered to pay for plan b.
This was a first for me and I was hesitant to take it because I was afraid of getting sick. I eventually ended up taking it and texted him that I took it and was sorry for hesitating. He replied warmly and said he’d see me when he’s back.
And that was the last I’ve heard, it’s been about 5 days… idk why I’m so anxious. He has always kept his word.