I'm 33M, im married, a mortgage ( my only debt) no kids, watch anime, play some mobile and ps games, decent job with decent pay, I travel a lot – traveled to 3 countries in 12 months and loving it. However I get the feel im not doing enough with my career, with my ambitions. I smoked weed for the longest time ( currently 3 years weed free).. I dont feel like im man enough, I dont feel im at the same place with other 33 year olds. I feel like im still figuring my thing out.
Ive been laid off twice and anting to start a business but dont feel confident in my abilities. I know im good at what I do but can't fight the feeling of failure and being inadequate
I need perspective and advice on how do I feel more mature, how do I feel like im the man my wife will continue to love and friends look up to and appreciate.
Feeling discouraged and like a kid with grown up money