So I’m in my early 20’s, male. I just started a new/exciting career. And the pay is really good. In my first I make about $3.5K-4.5K per month. And in 12 years I’ll be making about 9k per month, that’s if I work 100 hrs. So it depends if I actually wanna work a lot during a specific month
So with that type of career I have, and the amount of money I’ll be making. It definitely catches more peoples eyes, which tbh disappoints me in a way. Cause it makes me think “would this person be talking to me if I didn’t have this job?”.
Also the amount of times I’ve gotten the old phrase “you’re honestly such a great guy, but I’m just not in that stage of life”. When someone tells me that, I simply tell them “I understand have a good one”, it’s their life. Obviously it bothers me a bit internally, hence why I’m posting this.
So because of that, I feel like once I hit my 30’s and I’m doing great as far as money, I’m just not gonna wanna be with anyone. Because the same type of people who tell me they aren’t in that stage, are finally going to want to be with me. Finally gonna wanna be with me after they had all their “fun” as a young adult. Finally ready to settle down thinking they are gonna get the easy life. And that idea just doesn’t sit right with me.
I would feel like a loser being in that spot. I’m sure you guys have seen skits of what I’m talking about.
I guess I’ve just always had that fantasy of someone being with me through tough times.
Is this a bad way to think?