The right person will make their effort obvious. They’ll text back because they want to hear from you, they’ll make plans because they’re excited to see you, and they’ll treat you like a priority, not a backup. With them, you won’t feel like you’re asking for too much, it’ll just flow.
What they won’t do is leave you waiting for hours, give you half-hearted replies, or make you question whether they’re really interested. Dating should feel like mutual energy, not one-sided effort. The moment you feel like you’re pulling all the weight, it’s already telling you everything you need to know.