BF & I Have been dating for 4 months now, we met on a dating app and we had sex on the first night.
Before him there was only 2 other guys I had met through the dating app, one of the guys let’s call him Pete, I met was at the beginning of 2024 we hung out a few times and that was that. Then I met Mike at the beginning of this year we went on one date and again that was that, nothing came out of these dates.
Then fast forward to meeting my current BF (call him Brian) we met right away, in a public setting, we hit it off instantly and yes we did sleep together that same night in his car.
About a month or so I started getting these text messages from random #’s harassing me. First message said someone had recorded me having intercourse and asked for nudes, in other messages they’re calling me a sl*t, saying I was so fast to give it up, asked If I was still on dating apps, asked how many guys was I currently sleeping with. So just a bunch of different things from fake #’s.
I’m in disbelief that it could be my BF because he has been nothing but sweet to me but nothing like this has happened to me before and usually the txt messages come in the afternoon at 3 ish he gets off work at 1:30ish and is home by 2.
Anyways I decided to go through his app store to see if he had downloaded Txting Apps and they were a bunch that had been downloaded, I confronted and asked if he had been txting me from different #’s and he said no. I told him I went through his App Stored and there were multiple txting apps that had been downloaded, he said that it was from way back when the Ipod were around and if you didn’t have an actual phone he used those txting apps instead. He said the download history transfers over to a new phone as long as you are using the same Apple ID.
I don’t know what to do, he just explained why he had those txting apps but he didn’t ask anything about the txt messages I’ve been receiving..