"I’ve been friends with this guy for almost a year, and I had feelings for him at first, but I’m starting to feel like maybe it’s not worth it anymore. He’s often unreliable—like, we’ll make plans and then he won’t follow through. It’s really frustrating because it’s hard to tell if he genuinely cares about our friendship. On top of that, he parties all the time, gets drunk on weekends, and does things I don’t feel comfortable with (substance use, etc.). I’ve tried to be understanding, but it’s starting to feel like I’m settling for someone who doesn’t have the same values as me. I keep wondering if I should just cut him off, but I don’t want to lose the friendship. What do you think? Am I expecting too much, or is it time to let go?"
TLDR: Tired of being disappointed, is this just me or is this behaviour normal?