So this is kind of a complicated situation, so for context me and this girl started talking from my national guard base as we are both in the military and we talked for about a month and stuff and said we would stay loyal to each other throughout basic, and she shipped a week ahead of me and we saw each other at basic sometimes and church and I gave her letters and all was well. Fast forward to graduation and she comes to see me on both graduation days and she meets my parents and it went great. The next day on my way to tech school she said she wanted to marry me and all she thought about was me during basic and that I'm her forever person and I wasn't scared off by this and I kept it cool and said we need to cool it you don't actually mean it and that we are moving quick well either way I fell for the trap and said I felt the same way and ended up getting obsessed with her, fast forward now a week later she tells me that she needs to take a break and that I'm still her man and stuff and she wants to be with me but now she wants to take things slow as we are both at tech school. She has a tech school with a 75 percent washout rate so she said she needs to just study all month and she still wants to be with me but at the same time she is telling me don't let her hold me back and if I find other girls I should and she won't be mad and I told her I'm loyal to her only and I don't know what to do because she said she still wants to see me when she gets back and stuff but wants to take things slow after obsessing over me and lovebombing me. She said I can send her a recap of how my week went every Friday but I'm just sad and don't know what to do as we called every night and she said I was her husband and stuff and she does genuinely care for me.