Only lasted 3 months. And I was the one to end things, but it’s still a bummer. I learned a few things for the next time (if next time ever comes) but now it’s time for me to go back to not being able to imagine myself in any sort of loving and happy relationship/marriage with a family one day. Ah well.
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This is your chance NOT to go back to old ways and habits. Learn from this and move forward. Take the rose-tinted glasses off and look at the relationship from multiple angles.
Had a “breakup” back in May, was sort of a situationship (29M, 30F). First date was on Valentine’s day and we had some really fun stay-overs, came up with some fun ideas for the summer to do stuff together. Shared goals and interests and all that. I caught feelings really hard which was my fault. But we’ve kept in some sort of contact since as friends so no ill-will on her. A genuinely good person who had been through some rough shit as well as myself. Have been on dates since then but just didn’t really feel comfortable and just said “fuck it, go back to doing your own thing.”
It is what it is, but you’re not an unlovable person. Life just happens in weird ways sometimes
why would you end it if it’s a bummer for you?