F21 M25
how do i overcome my insecurities in a relationship? my boyfriend is always complimenting me and as much as i appreciate him being so kind to me i don’t see myself the way he sees me AT ALL.
as bad as it sounds i’m literally insecure about everything, my voice & accent, the way i walk, how shy n awkward i am, the way i look, my hair my nose my lips my arms lmao literally every fucking thing man !!! maybe i spend too much time on social media comparing myself to others but its sooooo tiring and so hard to be comfortable in a relationship when you’re so uncomfortable with yourself.
i feel like no matter how much i try to change these things i will never be 100% happy with how i am and i really don’t want shit like this to affect our relationship. i sometimes don’t even wanna go out bc of how insecure i am i literally keep putting aside dinner dates etc bc i dont wanna be seen 😭i don’t want to be constantly thinking about how i look or act i just wanna spend time with him without overthinking every little thing
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