So many red flags. We met off line in my city because he didn’t want to meet in his. Then he shows up with a beer belly but yet sent pictures of him half naked with a six pack. When we met he asked do I look like my picture. I said yes embarrassingly. “If that’s a word” anyway he seems very ready to be my boyfriend which I’m like we just met. I told him I was tired and was going home after work and he responded with I show come over and lay with you. I responded late and he said or not. I said not. Then he made it all about him saying oh maybe I don’t like to cuddle. I said we just met yesterday, you’re still a stranger. He said I didn’t say today. Omg this too much. Then later I told him, you don’t look like your picture. I’m attracted to you but your body looks different. I wanted to tell you instead of someone else online. He got upset and said I know you’re not talking I’m blocking you. I was like okay, I just rather be honest because not all people handle people with love. I feel like I dodged a bullet. But don’t guys want the truth?


9 comments

  1. He knew that he no longer looked like the picture he sent you but also knew that you wouldn’t go for him with a beer belly. So he decided to lie and hope for the best.

  3. So, this is kind of jumbled and hard to read but from my understanding – he didn’t look like his photo, he repeatedly tried to pressure you into a situation that could lead to sex, and you were still talking to him days later and he became upset after you pointed out he doesn’t look like his photos and he blocked you.

    …the real question is why you kept talking to him and are upset he blocked you? Everything you described about this man was a red flag.

  4. Asking as a guy, I’m curious how you can lose abs/6pk or more with even moderate exercise??🤯🤯🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

  5. As a straight guy myself, I agree with you that this man is a huge red flag. It sounds like he was trying to manipulate you.

  7. That’s why it’s always good to meet someone in person quickly. You know right away if the chemistry is there. If the chemistry really was there you probably wouldn’t have been tired after work. Better to find out sooner than later & not waste any more time..

  8. LMAO! i am crying at this title im sorry…. bestie, sometimes the truth hurts lmao. But realize you are breaking a huge ego by telling them the 6pack aint there

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