Im 31 years old and havent had a real friend or literally anyone i can even text since 2021. Ive had two relationships that ended quickly because they were abusive, and ive forced myself to a lot of social events despite anxiety issues, met people, given my phone number and text them and even accommodated plans around their own anxiety issue, yet, to no avail did anything ever last and my isolation continues. Whats the secret, im tired of asking people if i did anything wrong to them and them always telling me no and they are just to tired or stressed with their own life to bother being a basic friend from time to time, or meeting complete creeps who want you know what and wont talk to me anymore unless i give in. Im tired of feeling lonely, sad, and tired of doing things by myself for another 10+ years and wasting my life without any purpose or connection, despite my many, many, years of continued effort i never have anything to show for in the end. Is their a secret, or is it really just all about luck, i mean we can find the most nicest person on the street tomorrow, or never cross paths. Is that seriously all their is to meeting people?