I’m 20M and I was raised to treat women properly — respect, honesty, not like objects. That’s just how I roll.
But now, it feels like everyone online calls that “simping.” Like… what? Being a decent human is weak now?
Meanwhile, so many people my age think hooking up or sliding into random DMs will fix their insecurities or make them feel validated. I just don’t get it — it seems like a short-term band-aid that messes with your head long-term.
I wanna understand: why is being genuine, respectful, and secure suddenly seen as uncool? And how do you even navigate dating today without turning into someone you’re not?
Advice, takes, whatever — I’m all ears.
(Edit- holy up votes surprise this blew up didn’t expect it too)