so, as you can see in the title, i’ve been worried about being annoying to my friend recently. we’ve known each other for our entire lives, but only last year we bonded in uni and began to hang out and become friends. now i consider him one of my closest friends. however, ive noticed recently that he just, doesn’t really initiate things with me. i only remember one time hes ever been the first to suggest we hang out, but he also said it in a way that sounded like he just assumed i was going to agree. it was a little weird. i know he doesnt really hang out with any of his friends that much, but he’s never lonely. like, maybe he has twenty friends, and sees one every other day at a time, so it takes like a whole month to cycle through all his friends. but, even so, he’s never asked me to hang out with him first(save for that one time i guess.) i know he is also kind of weird about people texting him first, sometimes he just tells me about these other girls that are texting him a lot and he’s not annoyed, but he makes sure to get the point across that they’re the ones that texted him first. i’m a little confused. sorry if my wording sounds weird too, because um texting this on my phone as i remember things lol
but yeah. am i overthinking things? is it normal to just..not really care about hanging out with friends? i’m always trying to hang out with someone because i like talking to people or just connecting with my friends. does me constantly asking him to hang out probably bother him? i would say he agrees about 98% of the time, but he’s also told me before that he feels bad. oh wait, he’s also mentioned that he hates rejection. so there’s that too. please i need help understanding this man 😩