I asked a couple days in advance if he could talk on the phone yesterday since he’s been busy lately. He said he could talk then. So earlier yesterday night, I hit him up asking if he’s free to talk but by the time he got back to me, it was after 10 pm. He said he was too tired to talk. He works a 9-5, as far as I know he didn’t have any plans after work.
I get that it happens. But I feel that for something as simple as a phone call, one I asked for days prior to our actual talk, you’d at least try to carve out time for it, right? Or communicate you can’t talk for long.
Coupled with the updated profile, I don’t think I need to know more. This is enough for me to know he’s not taking this as seriously as he used to. I’m not sure if I’m blowing things out of proportion but, I feel like the lack of effort behind one phone call says a lot, right?
But I do appreciate everyone chiming in from my previous post. I’m just disappointed that this is what it’s come to. Just feels like I wasted time.
My previous post, in case anyone’s confused:
Guy I’ve been on almost ten dates with + talking to for four months updated his profile.
Welp. 😂 I can anticipate the comments.
Sometimes I (F20) look at his profile to see his face since we see little of each other due to conflicting schedules. And boom. Changed one of his pictures to a recent photo.
Mkay that’s it lol