My friend and I work in different domain. She is completely business and I am on technical domain. She thinks I was very good in the beginning of our friendship but now I have changed. She says she is good at understanding people, but I think she ends up judging and over thinking. Her reactions are very loud and she reacts to any situation instantly, so sometimes I am scared to talk to her in public. We are part of the same group of friends , but I have my technical buddies also in there. Now sometime I want to hangout with my team members, and most of the time it happens natually because we are in the same team and they are also part of that group but she feels bad that we excluded her. And when she is there and we talk something which is not of her interest or she does not have the context ( because it is specific to our work) she wants us to change the topic. How to handle such a difficult friend?
Edit1-She has shared all her personal secrets to everyone in our group , maybe I know quite a few more secrets about her and she thinks I haven’t shared any of my secrets with her . I am towards introvert side and she is very much outgoing nature