Ngl, I don’t know when exactly it happened maybe it was when I stopped comparing salaries or when a quiet weekend felt more exciting than a night out. I used to think I needed to win in life like bigger job title, faster car, whatever. Now, peace of mind feels like the goal. A walk with my dog, a phone call with my mom, eight hours of sleep these hit differently now.
Just curious, for those of you over 30 like what was the exact moment, event or realization that made you go, Yeah… I’m not chasing the same things anymore? Was it burnout? Becoming a dad? A loss? A win? I’d love to hear the turning points that reshaped your values. Could help some of us still figuring it out.