So I was never super social, I have always had a close but small friend group. After highschool I went straight to work and went back to college at 30 do my experience isn't really standard.
I'm super proud of my kid but they are kind of like me in that they don't make friends super easily. They went to community college for the last two years of highschool and did eventually make a nice little friend group.
But now they went out of state to a smallish town for college. They initially had a little friend group going but it seems they kinda got pushed out and are now finding it very hard to make new friends.
I suggested clubs but I guess clubs are super competitive and they are having a hard time there as well.
Because I have literally zero experience or knowledge going to a 4 year college completely away from all friends and family like this, I literally feel like I have no idea as far as what advice to give my kid.
My kid is kinda nerdy in a good way but I don't see them having much luck at frat parties or anything like that. I just have no clue what to suggest. Any help would be greatly appreciated.