I’m confused, nervous, and excited.
I reconnected with a guy I casually dated a year ago. He reached out in January and have been great friends since! Around July, things got a little flirtatious and spicy. We expressed mutual physical attraction but that’s about it.
I didn’t think much of it. Kinda seemed like we were just friends. He would do random things like caress my thighs, hug me very long, found ways to compliment my lips and touch them BUT things have not led to sex! We haven’t even kissed 😂
It literally has been very flirtatious. He calls me 2-3x a week and we have really great convos. I just feel like we get along very well.
So 2 days prior he had texted me and asked for my opinion on a neck tattoo. He’s concerned that he may look trashy. I told him he wouldn’t because he dresses well, talks educated, and overall looks out together. He told me “you lift my spirit up so much. Thank you for being there me in different ways. You make me feel good!”
Kinda felt like he was expressing his gratitude as a friend tbh. He’s been through a very difficult time after his mother’s loss and I’ve been there for him.
Last night, we had a 1 hour phone call and I’m so confused.
We were talking and our conversation kinda got sexual. He was telling me the things he wants to do.
Then he goes “you make me so happy! you make me feel a lot of different things. I don’t know how to explain” I then told me I feel the same way. He makes my days brighter, I’m always laughing with him and I feel like he’s always giving me the best advice ever”
Then he goes “I wish I lived closer” (he moved 1 hour away) but then says “or maybe jts not a good idea I’m closer to you because you’d get bored of me” I told him I would never get bored of him. That would never happen. He also tells me he might be weird for a guy. I asked why and he said “I’m not the type to sleep around. Idk I’m cool off all the BS” which was weird because he were kinda talking dirty and pretty much it explains why we haven’t done anything
Also he makes statements like “Ima going to take you here on a date” “I’m going to wear this cologne on our date”
Either you’re playing with me or simply just appreciate my presence as a friend