The women mostly live further away. I maybe meet one that’s close by (less than an hour away) once every few months or so, the rest are too far of a traveling distance so we wind up just texting indefinitely (my max distance is an hour away, I don’t see a point traveling in upward of two hours away just for a first date)
I’m not sure why it’s so difficult to meet women on these apps who live close by, I’ve had worse luck irl so far compared to the apps at least in the past couple weeks, like I met an amazing woman and we’ve been doing FaceTimes, we hopefully plan to meet soon but that was just one of the women who lived closer.
It’s disappointing.