I (24M) have been seeing this girl (27F) for a couple of weeks, and things have been going really well. After our fourth date, she decided to come back to my place and have sex. I tried to initiate some foreplay, but she immediately wanted to jump into it, which was fine, as I was already erect. It’s important to note that it takes me some time to finish, which I tried explaining to her. So, after some time had passed, I ended up getting soft and told her that I needed to get hard again, which made her upset. She got up, went to the bathroom, dressed, and left abruptly. She then texted me saying, “Are you sure there’s chemistry if you didn’t finish and go soft without using a condom 😬” (Note: we did use a condom to start, but then she said we should try it without it. We both decided to get tested before having sex, so I felt safe doing so)
I’m feeling really embarrassed about this situation, and I'm not sure how to proceed. I really like her, and I texted her back saying that it had nothing to do with her, which she wasn’t receptive to hearing. How do I proceed from here?